POST 12: Obstacles in a goal

Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by obstacles which he has overcome. - Booker Washington

How do you start planning you goal? Is it like it is almost perfect that all you've got to do is to pursue it? According to Joseph Cossman, "Obstacles are things a person sees when he takes his eyes off his goal." It is a challenge that one should pass. When i read  an article about success, I suddenly found this another article entitled The 3 Obstacles To Your Success by Alexis Wolfer,

• Obstacle 1: Fear of Failure, Failure is necessary step on the path to success. It allows you to push past your comfort zone and find the true limits of your success without regard to what you think those limits may be.

• Obstacle 2: Pursuit of Perfection, Perfect doesn't exist, it will never be. And while you're sitting around waiting for it, someone else is making progress. 

• Obstacle 3:, Quitting is actually great, if you do it correctly. As Seth Godin hss said, "You should quit if the project you're working on has a Dip that isn't worth the reward at the end. If that's the case, it's to your best advantage to quit often and quit fast.

Holding on the past is one of the problems why people are having difficulties in moving toward their goals.

Even you have goal, you have to make sure the right strategy to pursue it. People get distracted to what they are going to do next. Achieving goals will never be easy because of the numerous obstacles a person has. It might be a poor influence or could be lack of motivation. There are lots of people around you that could be a reason to stop you pursuing your goal. Like for example, Family. They may not do not want what you want to have. Or your friends that will influence you in a good way.

In conclusion, A person will never be success if they lack of hope. If they easily give up on the several obstacles that we have in our live. Obstacle is everywhere. It will be your opponent that will test your patience and passion in pursuing your goal.  

Post 11: Hope for a bright future

People have different perspective in life. Some are hopeful, some are not. Some easily get tired on doing their particular task and some are really giving out their best. As I was reading an articles from the net, I've found a Bible passage from Jeremiah, According to the bible passage of Jeremiah, He said that "For i know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."  

Creating plans for the future is a positive thinking a person could do. Positivity is a good attitude to have a good future. They are those who are more likely to have successful career in the future. If you are looking for a shortcut to success, there is no room for you to succeed. 

Changing your mind-set for being negative thinker is a must if you want to achieve your goal. According to the article life of excellence, The heart, soul and mind in tandem decide what, when and how to change. A small difference in the way we operate our mind and the inner self can make a huge difference in the quality of our lives. Life of excellence is the race towards bringing about this change. 

In conclusion, it would be difficult for you to have if you have negative mind. Negativity is somehow positive for it finds the wrong thing as wrong. But no matter what kind of a thinker you are, if you really want something, you're going to fight for it.

POST 10: FAILURE TO SUCCESS

Failure is one of the reasons why some people succeed. Committing mistakes is as normal as you slipped on the floor. Standing up from a failure is where a person learns. When I was thinking of how to overcome failure, I've read articles that explains how.

According to the article the difference between succeeding to failing written by Carrie, "it is not how good your ideas are that will make you successful, it's how determined you are to fight to make them reality. Because if you want to be successful, you have to fight for it. This means that it there is no excuses if you heartily want something. 

Numerous people talk about plans and discussion. People know what is the problem and what is the solution but they intended to have second thinking that they will fail. The reason why people intend to think that way is because they fear rejection. As Richard Fenton said that the word "no" doesn't have to debilitate you. We must overcome fears of failure and rejection to be successful and achieve what we want. Trying is one of the keys to overcome fear of failure. 
An article of Overcoming failure written by Richard Fenton listed "5 Steps for Turning Failure Into Success"

• Change your mental model of "success" and "failure".

• Intentionally increase your failure rate

• Set "no" goals

• Celebrate your failures, not just your successes

• See courage as a 'muscle"

There is no requirement not to intentionally make mistakes. Accidentally or not, it is where you learn. Success is a destination, Failure is a way to get there. Welcome your mistakes because it is your possibility to way in success. 

Setting your goals is a big thing that a person should never forget, because your goal is your way pathway to go through your dreams. 

In conclusion, Nobody can order you to do what you want. If you have your own hope on something, you will do it deliberately. It is not a big deal for you to think negatively on how you will succeed from a mistake, because it will only depend on how you handle things. The one who has most number of failure and never given up is the one who become successful.