Chapter2
Discussion
What are the factors contributing to one’s success?
People with self-esteem are highly possible to get jobs and
have a good career in the future. A belief of what a person has, and will is
promoted to be fitted in a bright future. However, the course of
succeeding takes years to constantly build up.
Hope is a feeling of expectance to possible future honour or
something to motivate.
A person who received the intervention of hope was more
likely industrious than who didn’t show greater levels of hope. Adding that
hope activates circuits that can make an individual feel more open, creative
and calm, There are two classifications of human’s attitude that leads to
succeed; Optimistic and Pessimistic. An Optimist is the one who expects the
best in all possible ways. However, Pessimist is someone who looks on the
negative situations.
Positive
Effect of being an Optimist:
Being an optimist gives a lighter future. It
causes a positive outcome of everything you wish to be better. For example, you
told yourself that something good will happened to your day and you really made
it good. Positive thinking means that you’re avoiding unpleasantness in a more
positive way. When you think, you think of the best result it would provide you
and not the worst. Some optimist talks in a logic way for they think logic as
easy. Besides, they also have healthier lifestyle and can tolerate with stress
easier. When they commit failure, they are the people who will stand up and
will take it a challenge to be better next time. They are most likely the ones
who are competitive because they do not want to be discriminated by others. No
sign of hurt; affectless. No matter what problems you give to them, they will
not look at it as a problem. However, it promotes happiness into one’s life. No
stress, it makes them proactive and allows them to develop the trait of
patience. Mostly, it increases their level of productivity. So when it comes to
succeeding, they are the ones who are competitive and passionate.
Negative
Effect of being an Optimist:
Too
much expectation will lead you to disappointment. An optimist has a very
positive thinking that everything will be better. However, Optimists always
anticipate good things to happen which would result to carelessness and
laziness. They are simply the happy-go-lucky people who always depend on
positivity in life. Even there comes a time that they need to do something
about it. One example is in exam, they lean towards to the positive outcome of
not reviewing the day before an exam because they have an assurance that there
are many ways to pass an exam, and that’s what you called a reliant, which is
not good. In addition, Optimists seemed moderately unfazed by their losses.
Mistakes must be always welcome to be able to learn and level up your learning.
A person who does it will never learn
and will have less chance to succeed because they just depend and expect good
outcome by doing nothing and just simply depending on positivity.
Positive
Effect of being a Pessimist:
Negative
thinking prevents pessimists to do some things because they will assume that
it’ll give adverse effects. That’s why they are always afraid to be
disappointed in the end. They tend to
think directly to what will happened in a bad outcome. One example is where you
are in an instance that you want to do something good but it is obviously bad,
you will never tend to try or does it because you suspects that that will never
be good. Likewise, they were more likely to have their better risks if their
past performance had be weak. Subconsciously, someone who is a Pessimist takes
steps to avoid the worst that at least when something went wrong it’s not
his/her liable to be upset about it because it was expected. Moreover,
situation turns out to good things in the end with a magnificent surprised
feeling. More people must look into this and understand the result of being a
pessimist.
Negative
Effect of being a Pessimist:
Pessimist is a stress and an unfavourable
positive view that causes them losses and too many disappointments. It is a
misfortune that tortures people because this is a man’s personality which
cannot be erased. For example, is when you are eager to do something you want
but you think it won’t result a positive outcome, it will be a big
disappointment for you because you didn’t get the chance to do it. Although
pessimist are weak (losers is what they call to them), they still have the
chance to get rid of the possible bad outcome. To avoid wrong doings and
instances is to be able to grab the chance to continue living and dreaming to
pursue ones goal.
Results:
People have different perspective in life. Successful
people don’t do act randomly and hope good thing will come of their
actions. One example is Roosh, who has
been writing blogs for several years and an author, launched the Return of the
King, that it is better to be a Pessimist because it diverts energy from
putting in hard work and requires much more than just mental thought. And
several people agreed to him. On the other hand, every outcome depend on the
way you think; either positively or negatively.
People can either notice an optimist and a
pessimist but never to judge them. To be able to succeed, you must first
understand carefully that pessimist is more likely to succeed rather than
optimist. They may have numerous differences, but optimists could have somehow
positive outcome but has several negative outcome. Unlike pessimist, they know
which and when to avoid carefully a wrong doing. Several people would probably
see pessimists as losers, but they are definitely wrong. First, pessimists are
quiet and weak because they are afraid of failure. But despite that, they tend
to commit mistake in a right way to make sure that they will not fail. Another
is, they do not attempt to choose easy ways to succeed like simply depending on
positive outcome that will cause them lack of learning.
A Pessimist does countless good things. They
accept failure but still try to do it again. They may be weak, but the hope in
their heart never vanished. Pessimist rather chooses to commit failure and be
disappointed, instead of calming every time and simply wait to the positive
outcome it will give. Hope gives them courage to continue living as Pessimists
that’s lending them to go through the right path. Hope is the key to success;
it is still possible that a positive thinker would do everything in right.
Adding that hope activates circuits that can make an individual feel more open,
creative and calm. People with hope are more likely to succeed for it gives
something to live for, to strive for and to hope for.
